Wednesday, May 16, 2012

On the sidewalk

Phew… I'm back after a semi-hiatus from the blog! I know I haven't been very clear on what's happening in my life currently, but I've just been waiting for the dust to settle before announcing anything. It's been a really crazy month and as much as what is happening hurts, I know it's for the best. I'm really hopeful for the future. I have no idea what it will hold, but I'm looking forward to finding out.


In the meantime, I was told to continue blogging and doing what I love as normal, so here I am. Trying my best to get dressed up everyday and enjoy life. I can honestly say these past couple of weeks have been the worst and best days of my life. Can you imagine feeling all of those emotions into just a short amount of time? It's overpowering. Like a HUGE wake-up call.


Selective Potential will stay what it is. I know it will. It will include my passion for style, traveling around the state, taking dorky trips and enjoying life as cheesy as possible. That's what I'm all about. I sometimes hate how much of my life is driven by emotion, but I also love it. It's gotten me to some of the best places I've ever known.


Outfit details:
Forever 21 belt
Urban Outfitters t-strap heels

92 comments:

☆kayla said...

We're with you, Tieka! <3 Your blog is so much fun to read, and as long as you stay you, your readership will follow.

(Also those shoes are kind of incredible and I really want a pair.)


- Kayla ☆ http://www.kaylanaut.com

Casey said...

Longtime reader, and I just have to say you're unbelievably inspiring. You never know what life has in store for you, but as long as you're true to yourself and follow your heart, everything will always, always, always be okay. <3

No Guilt Fashion said...

I'm in love with that skirt. I'm glad you are keeping your blog as is.

CarleeJ said...

Keep your head up girl. I love your blog and your so inspirational.You are a lovely woman. Things will get better in time.
Carlee

http://allthingsaveragegirl.blogspot.com/

Rini Hastuti said...

everything will be alright Tieka, we're with you :)

Kelly said...

Keep your head up! Life is a rollercoaster and there will always be ups and downs. You look gorgeous by the way!

Britt {Secondhand Magpie} said...

Life is tricky sometimes. It doesn't care that we have a blog to tend to, and just seems to happen whenever, however! Keep your head up. Without the worst times, you'd never really know the best times when they're happening, and this kind of growth only happens during extreme circumstances.

A lot is ahead for you, so know everyone reading at home is cheering you on :)

Britt
The Secondhand Magpie

dear winsome said...

ahhh what the heck is going on?! i hope everything falls into place soon..we love you!! gorgeous as usual, these t-straps are my favorite ever.

LaReK said...

Nice outfit, I just love it !

Hannah said...

Cheers to your bright and hopeful attitude! I hope things start looking up soon. I understand about being directed by emotions--it can be wonderful but also terrible. All the best to you. : )

P.S. Love the outfit. : )

Girl and Closet said...

Aw, Tieks I wish I lived close by so that I could give you a huge hug & take you out for a everything is going to be okay dinner/drinkies!! I've been thinking about you a lot girl, and I've wanted to email... but then I keep thinking you must be getting an insane amount of emails pouring through your inbox - so I didn't want to be a bother either while you're going through a rough time! Keep strong, girly!!

And as for this post?! Aw, well you look absolutely beautiful, your outfit is gorg & I've been eyeing that Ruche skirt... just might have to get it! SMOOCHES!! V

Elise said...

Hope everything is okay. Love to you!

Asilia said...

Good luck in your endeavors. Life always comes before blogging, even if blogging is life. It is a hectic time of year, and we all understand.

Ashley Paige said...

definitely sending positive vibes and prayers your way.

Jen said...

I love you girl! You are so amazing and strong! Such an inspiration to all of your readers! You look stunning!

Lizzie said...

awwww way to stay strong and positive amazing lady :)

You look so adorable...I love that colorful and fun skirt!!

xo
Lizzie
placeclevertitlehere.blogspot.com

JazmineKariss said...

Adorable skirt, love this outfit :)
-Jaz
http://www.fluffyfashioncents.blogspot.com

Erika said...

Such a gorgeous skirt! You look beautiful.

Rachel Emma (Daydream Frenzy) said...

Oh Tieka, reading your most recent tweets and this blog post truly makes my heart break for you! :( I hope things look up for you very soon. xo

daydream frenzy

tamara said...

i'm so sorry you're going through a rough time. i hope everything works out for the best. and of course, cute outfit, as always. xo

Carly Smith Hohl said...

Everything will be okay, dear.

Jennifer said...

I sorry for the pain that you're going through and I hope you can get through everything smoothly.

On another note, you look so lovely!

xo Jennifer

http://seekingstyleblog.wordpress.com

ilene @ muchloveilly said...

aw, hugs, friend! hoping for the very best for you, no matter where life takes you. much love!

. said...

this outfit is sooo adorable! can i steal it from you?:)

http://prettylittlethingfashion.blogspot.com/

Sandy a la Mode said...

you look adorable sweetie!! and hang in there girl!! i think of my blog as a fun outlet for myself, i love it!

Jo said...

It's lovely to have you back! <3 I hope you're feeling better soon - you are definitely in my thoughts!

x
Lost in the Haze: a Fashion Photography Blog

Laura Ann said...

I hope everything works out okay...I don't know what is going on, but you are in my thoughts <3

Laura said...

I hope everything's okay! Hang in there...<3

thejoyfulfox.blogspot.com

ABBY! said...

Tieka, I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time right now. Your cheerful spirit will help you bounce back soon. Keep doing what you love and focusing on the good parts of your life. You can make it!!! You're a rock star. <3

Alice Barton said...

life always ens up falling into place. don't worry. what eveer is going on it will be alright. it might take more, or less, but you have the power to control if you decide to be stong and face the problems with a smile and move on.
loads of cyber-hugs with loads of positive energy straight from Spain. xx
Alice Barton ♥ TheMowWay

janis said...

thinking of you tieka. hope everything gets sorted out. xo.

snow me white said...

Aw! Whatever is going on in your life, I hope you're okay. I don't comment much but I always check your blog and will keep doing so:)
I had the strangest moment the other day because your doppelganger (apparently) lives in Denver. I saw her at a show and got all shy and weird, as if you (she?) were a hollywood celeb. But! It was someone else. So, if I ever do meet you, I'll try to be a little less weird!
Sending good thoughts you way.
Sonja

THE-LOUDMOUTH said...

WE LOVE YOU!!!

Marushka82 said...

Awww Tieka, I'm sorry to read that you're going through some rough patch in your life. You're an incredibly inspiring person, always so positive and I know you will get through it!
I'm sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts your way!

Michelle said...

The world is your oyster babe, you do whatever makes you happy x

Barborka said...

Very nice outfit :)

Shannon said...

Great to see you and your adorable outfit. Follow your heart. I know some changes are so hard to make, but I'm sure you'll decide what's best for you. I wish you ALL the best.

xo,
http://shannonhearts.blogspot.com

Jamie Rose said...

This skirt is so pretty! I just love all the fun colors in it. Your navy blouse is fantastic paired with it. Everything about this is super cute!

Sue said...

I love your outfit! Good luck with everything now.

Gwyneth Genevieve said...

Aw, Tiek! As someone who has followed you for the past two+ years, I can honestly say that your blog has brought so much inspiration into my life. You and your blog are actually one of the main reasons I started blogging, too! I can't ever thank you enough for that. Your passion, creativity, and sweet personalty are amazing. Don't ever change!

I've honestly been so, so worried, seeing your tweets and everything. I hope things are okay, and that you're doing all right. Stay strong, girl!

Saar said...

I love your outfit. Too bad they're not selling your top anymore on ModCloth! I really hope you're ok too.

much love, Saar.

April, Everyday Forgotten said...

Aw, Tieka, I really hope everything is ok for you right now. I'm sure everything will work out for the best and you'll be back to your happy self soon! You really are such an inspiring person and I hope you're ok! Have a lovely week.

laura-littleroominthenorth said...

Oh Tieka I hope you're ok. I know cryptic statements are often necessary but they can be worrying! Sending you good wishes across the ocean, and hoping that this all turns out to be a scary but exciting step for you. You look beautiful as ever
xxx

Sophie said...

I hope everything brightens up for you soon. On another note, you're looking gorgeous lady!
Sophie
x

jana said...

I'm so sorry you're going through a difficult time! My motto is even if you don't feel smiley, force that smile. Eventually someone will return it, and you're fake smile will be a real one. That'll send some happy vibes inside, and you'll feel momentarily better. Those moments will become more frequent again.

Yours is the blog I look most forward to reading, and I'm glad you decided to stay. Although the majority of your readers are strangers to you, our support is genuine.

And you still manage to look amazing. :)

Patricia said...

You look amazing! I want that skirt.

But more importantly, sending across town hugs.

Let me know the next time you are going on a fried chicken run. I am discreet and nonjudgmental. haha.

xoxo Patricia

eleanor said...

I don't have much to say that I haven't said already, but I love you, Tiek. And you look AMAZING. Seriously! That skirt is dreamy and you just look so freakin' gorgeous.

I hope you know how much love and support you have behind you, every step of the way.

Shy :) said...

"What day is it?"
"It's today," Squeaked Piglet.
"My Favourite Day," Said Pooh.

Angel Hendricks said...

love your blog so cute!!!

Angel Hendricks said...

love your blog so cute!!!

Colleen Beaty said...

Your outfit today is super cute!

Whatever is going on, I hope everything resolves itself for the highest good. I send good vibes for you from Maryland!

Blessings,
Colleen

Megane said...

I'm new to the fashion blogger world (best thing ever!) and I have to say that your blog inspires me the most.

Somehow everything works out as long as we stay true to ourselves. Keep up the good work!

Cheers,
Megan

Vicki said...

Tieka I hope everything is ok with you and your heart. you have been my favourite blogger for years now. you are an inspiration and a beautiful person inside and out. dont forget that. if you ever need anyone to lean on you have all of us blogger pals here for you. xox

Lorena said...
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Lorena said...

We never know how strong you are until being strong is our only option. You'll get through this... somethings end, new things begin.
You are an inspiration!

Eclectic Flair said...

"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times..." I've been there before and I can relate on how exhausting that kind of roller coaster of emotions is like. My heart goes out to you and I'm sending positive vibes your way that things get better soon. Just know it's okay to feel sad and not be cheery while you process all of this, it's part of healing. Just don't dwell too much because dwelling never helps. I hope it helps you to know that you have INSPIRED more people in more ways than you can EVER imagine. You have had a positive influence in so many people's lives and you are soooo loved in and out of the blogging community! If you need anything, please let me know. I'm a great listener. :-)
Hugs and much love,
Lidi

mooseinchartreuse said...

I don't know what's going on in your life, but that's okay because I really don't know you apart from occasional blog stalking. I do, however, know that skirt is just awesome and gorgeous, and it would be hard to feel sad wearing something that wonderful. I always wear my favorite clothes to cheer my up on rough days. Hopefully that skirt is doing its job!
C Marcia (Sequins)

Dianna C said...

Hi!!

I've been reading your blog for more than a year, and you're so unique, your life, your emotions, your creativity , and more, make you a wonderful person.

I just wish you the best and cheer up!

XOXO

Lo said...

Glad you're back! I've been following your tweets and know that something is up, and have therefore been thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts. Thanks for being real about life, because it is certainly not always perfect!

<3 Lo

www.deliciouslyyourslo.blogspot.com

charity victoria said...

first things first, that last photo is absolutely darling. so sweet.

more importantly, I don't know what's going on but I admire the attitude you have about hard times. Also remember it's okay to let yourself feel sad, eat comfort foods, watch tv, read, whatever your safe place is. We're only human. :)

sending good thoughts your way! xo.

Worthington said...

You look so, so cute here!

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Caitie Schlisserman said...

that skirt is a dream!

xxx
www.ladyalamode.com

Bree said...

Sending positive thoughts your way! It is inspiring when bloggers can open up and be real with their readers.

Thanks for all you do.

Cheers,
Bree
Dream in Fashion

His Little Lady said...

you are absolutely adorable, girl! i hope that everything will be okay, soon! we all adore you and want you to be happy! and it's okay to be emotional. just like this quote i read the other day:
"Being tender and open is beautiful. As a woman, I feel continually shhh'd. Too sensitive. Too mushy. Too wishy washy. Blah blah. Don't let someone steal your tenderness. Don't allow the coldness and fear of others to tarnish your perfectly vulnerable beating heart. Nothing is more powerful than allowing yourself to truly be affected by things. Whether it's a song, a stranger, a mountain, a rain drop, a tea kettle, an article, a sentence, a footstep, feel it all - look around you. All of this is for you. Take it and have gratitude. Give it and feel love."
hope this brings peace to your mind, as it has mine!
xo TJ

One Girl said...

I will say a little prayer for you sweetie :) You are who you are and WE love you!!!!!!!!

CP and KW said...

Darling skirt! I love the flowy fabric and those gorgeous bright colors! You look great!

http://ladiesinnavy.blogspot.com/

Megan Roth said...

I have to say that as a huge fan of fashion blogs for years, I have never commented on one. But I figured it was time I say that your blog is a huge encouragement and inspiration to me. I have a list of like 30 blogs I check basically daily, and yours is easily my very favorite. You are beautiful, real, vulnerable, and a breath of fresh air! You exude joy and LIFE, and if it is possible to radiate happiness and bliss out of pictures, you sure do it.

Whatever is being thrown at you in life right now, know that you have so many people behind you rooting for you. You are a strong and powerful human being! I hope that you believe in yourself and know that you are going to get through this, because everyone else sure believes in you. So much love and prayers being sent your way! xoxo

kelly ann said...

thinking of you and sending a whole lot of love your way. you are strong and you will get through this. chin up, sweet girl! xo.

chillairandperfume said...

I love everything about this outfit, especially your gorgeous skirt! It's so perfectly springy :)

xo,
Hannah
www.chillairandperfume.blogspot.com

Constance said...

Your blog is so nice!

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Steffys Pros and Cons said...

i hope youre okay tieka, youve been on my mind! life is sometimes rough but you just have to stay positive and know it all happens for a reason! we all love you :)

xo,
steffy

Stacie Grissom said...

***Sending good thoughts your way, Tieka. Your cheerful self will always come out on top. :)

Kayla said...

I hope that everything is well! I don't know any details but I will pray that you find some peace about whatever is going on in your life. Life can throw us some tough stuff but just keep your head up and your thoughts positive. My prayers are with you in whatever you are going through. You are such a lovely person and I hope it gets better for you soon.

Ruby Girl said...

very fun look! love the print on that skirt... and your adorable smile! xoxo linds {{www.rubygirlblog.com}}

pourlecoeur said...

i'm sorry to hear that you are going through a rough patch! hope everything works out as soon as possible.
xo, cheyenne

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Jul, Life Is A Romantic Poem said...

I could tell by these photos that something was wrong with you. I really hope that this pain will disappear soon. You look extremely lovely anyways.

Life is a romantic poem

Look Pretty said...

I hope everything works out for you. I know it will. Keep Smiling! (Those are cute shoes, btw)

Anonymous said...

These photos are truly adorable. Whatever is going on right now, you are clearly handling it with composure and grace. A class act as always <3

Kristina Gulino said...

I'm so with you! This season in our marriage is funky! (Not between us, haha, but where we are, and what we THINK we should be doing). A lot of things to think about. Just praying that God will lead us in the right direction!! Best of luck to you!! I'm sure things will be wonderful ;)

Kristina
Nook & Sea

Anonymous said...

Lovely blog. Keep smiling and hope life gets better soon x

Lara said...

wow i really love your blog ♥

Gizelle Faye | Vanilla Ice Cream said...

and i thought i was the only one growing through a struggle with keeping my blog who i am…what i love about your blog is how true you are to it…so keep going with what you feel! doing things with emotion just shows how passionate we are..<3

rock on, tieka!

♥ vanilla ice cream ♥

sweet harvest moon said...

Dark blue looks amazing on you!

blue roses said...

keep on rocking girl, glad to hear you are being open and optimistic! you are an inspiration.

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Molly said...

So sorry for the hurt you're feeling! Keep your positive attitude and keep smiling! This too shall pass! You're beautiful! :)

http://dareiwear.blogspot.com

irene wibowo said...

everything's will be okay.. so sorry for the hurt you're feeling.. Please keep smiling.. :) Irene Wibowo

Sandi said...
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My Vintage Curves said...

What a romantic outfit!

Kaili Clark said...

Stay strong. It will all be okay in the end. :)

Jenny Bodell said...

Love this outfit! and i NEED that skirt! so cute!
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